I am an cancer of the intestines patient, from March, 1974 inspected had 25 years to now. That one year in March, I had a surgery in the Shanghai Qingpu County People's Hospital, pathological section's report told me already to get sick heavily; Colon adenocarcinomaⅡLevel. At that time I already over 30 years old, but has not married. After my fiancee knows this conclusion, cries one's heart out, is deeply grieved.

　　Falls into the life in me the hopeless situation, feels helpless in front of the cancer evil spirit, was my this fiancee gives me to defeat the illness huge courage, was she has given the tremendous strength which I fought, was also she makes me to set up must certainly defeat the cancer evil spirit, certainly must go on living firm faith.

　　My fiancee in the navy cultural work group work, is originally a sentiment honest plain, strong, the good-hearted ordinary female. She saw me to contract cancer, thought that if henceforth separated from each other, that will be I “liked a sudden thunderclap go against” the attack, will accelerate my aggravation of disease. Most difficult most needs in me the human helps one another, is my this fiancee puts on passes away the desire wind and rain, the rumor hidden rock, the rumors eddy current, full load her to my affection's river boat, was sailing to my mind harbor ......The parents sister-in-law cuts off the intercourse with her, persuades the unit colleague's good words puts out of one's mind.

　　In the surgery latter three months, she announced resolutely married me. She is accompanying me all day, washes the face for me scratches the body, feeds the food to feed the water; The song, was saying on and on encourages words; Slender both hands' stroking, has driven out the ache which the cancer evil spirit brings; She supports by the arm me to take a walk cautiously in the park, helps me to exercise. My wife looked like in the fairy tale at that time the female celestial, gave me - - one to lie down on the hospital bed struggles the fragrance which lived in the death line cancer patient, the life spring. I thought that I was in the world the happiest person! The sincere love, I spiritually obtained the greatest comfort; The sincere love produced one kind in my mind not to be able to say a word specially defeats cancer's spiritual strength, in the heart has surged the warm current which loved, I lived have the power, was hopeful, the life will not dry up!

　　After the sickness soon, doctor makes the large dose chemotherapy to me. The intense toxicity responded that causes my fierce vomit, the diarrhea, dizziness to lose hair, the blood platelet reduces, liver function not normal ......The body is weak with difficulty supports, but I endured. In order to repay wife's deep love, the heavy sentiment, I must go on living, must survive gets down, must defeat each kind of toxic response. Under the economical condition in straitened circumstances, my wife asks somebody to buy the soft-shelled turtle to eat in all directions to me. I eat meal treat as with a cancer evil spirit struggle's conventional fight. Vomits, again eats one, does not regress. Then, I strictly obey doctor's request, has insisted the entire seven years chemotherapy.

　　The time is passing day-by-day, my condition also day by day changes for the better, stably, my life is filling the pleasure. 80 years later, I and the spouse made up have managed “the wedding trip”, has toured Beijing, Hangzhou, Shaoxing, Ningbo and the Putuo, made up is on one's honeymoon. Our love likely is a flint, in intense striking, launches the bright glory.

　　Now I have lived equally with the normal person, the work. After falling ill the resignation, I once was benefitting the bright food products factory to work. I at home help to do laundry, do the housework, but also extracts the time to jump the social dancing. In order to let more people be joyful, I also teach many people to jump the social dancing.

　　In more than 20 year and illness makes in struggle's life, I realized deeply, cancer have not needed to be afraid, one needs to insist the science treatment, two need to insist the reasonable diet; third, insists optimistically open-minded, cancer is may defeat.